Months after Jennifer Lopez filed for divorce from Ben Affleck, the former couple stepped out for lunch with family members ahead of Christmas.
Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck are proving to be friendly exes.
Months after the Maid in Manhattan star filed for divorce from the Air director in August—citing April 26 as their day of separation—the former couple stepped out for a holiday meal Dec. 22 at Soho House in Los Angeles.
“Jennifer arrived with family members for a late lunch,” a source tells E! News, adding that Ben appeared shortly after.
In photos, Jennifer dons a pair of wide-leg light wash jeans and a chunky white sweater with black detailing, along with black boots. The 55-year-old arrived carrying a black tote bag, wearing light wash jeans, a blue sweater and a black peacoat.
The former couple’s outing comes a little over a week after they made a public outing with Ben’s ex Jennifer Garner—with whom he shares kids Violet, 19, Seraphina, 15, and Samuel, 12—for a play starring Ben’s middle child.
For the outing, J.Lo also brought along her own kids, twins Emme and Max, both 16—whom she shares with ex Marc Anthony.

And while Ben and J.Lo have let the sun set on their romance, they have proven to be on good terms beyond family affairs. After all, the couple worked together on the film Unstoppable—which Ben co produced, while J.Lo starred.
She even lauded the experience of working alongside her ex on the movie—which was filmed in the months leading up to their divorce.
“I would describe all of the cast and everybody behind the scenes,” she told a reporter during the film’s U.K. premiere last month, “as spectacular and wonderful.”

Meanwhile, Ben, 52, also didn’t hold back on celebrating the crew—including his ex.
“We really believe in the power of storytelling when the people involved in it are deeply connected to the story,” Ben explained to Entertainment Tonight last month. “Jennifer’s spectacular.”

As for where the couple stands romantically? The “On The Floor” singer has made it clear that she’s focusing on herself right now.
“I can’t be looking for happiness in other people,” she said in an Interview magazine article published in October. “I have to have happiness within myself. I used to say I’m a happy person, but was still looking for something for somebody else to fill, and it’s just like, ‘No, I’m actually good.’”
Although they’re better off as friends, J.Lo and Ben’s romance was unforgettable. Keep reading for a look back.

The two prepare to film a scene for the movie in West Hollywood. The couple met on the set of the film.

The two are spotted in the city.

The two film the movie on Will Rogers State Beach in Los Angeles. That month, the actor proposes to the actress with a 6.1-carat pink diamond ring.

The two film the movie in New York City.

Is there anything more ’00s than both Bennifer 1.0 and TRL?

The two make their red carpet debut as a couple at the premiere of her film Maid in Manhattan.

The two bundle up at the Sundance Film Festival in Utah.

The two appear at the premiere of Daredevil, starring Ben as the superhero.

The two appear at the premiere of Daredevil, starring Ben and future ex-wife Jennifer Garner.

The two attend the Academy Awards together.

The two sit courtside at a Los Angeles Lakers game.

The two film a Dateline interview for NBC in Vancouver.

The two appear at the premiere for their movie in Westwood, Calif.

…it flops at the box office.

The two postpone their wedding. No future date is given.

The two are seen at a Boston Red Sox game. The team is Ben’s favorite.

The two end their engagement.

They’re baaaack. On Sept. 10, the couple makes their first red carpet appearance in 18 years at the Venice Film Festival premiere of The Last Duel.

There’s no denying J.Lo makes for a stunning plus-one!

Ben supports J.Lo at the 2021 Global Citizen Live event in New York City, where she performed onstage. It marked her first music gig since she performed at VAX LIVE in May, where the actor also appeared onstage separately, fueling rumors of a rekindled romance.

The two attend the Met Gala together for the first time.

Jen and Ben put on a sizzling display on the red carpet at the premiere of his film The Last Duel in New York City.

Jennifer confirmed her engagement to the Gone Girl actor with a video posted to her On The JLo site, revealing a glimpse of her beautiful engagement ring with a green stone.

On July 16, Jennifer and Ben tied the knot in a surprise ceremony at A Little White Wedding Chapel in Las Vegas.

The two vacation with her twins and two of his kids in the French capital soon after their wedding.

June 2023: Red Carpet Fabulous
J.Lo steps out with Ben in support of his movie The Flash.

February 2024: This Is Them…Now
Jennifer release This Is Me… Now, an album about her relationship with Ben. The record is accompanied by a musical film titled This Is Me… Now: A Love Story and the documentary The Greatest Love Story Never Told.

March 2024: Jenny on the Block
The couple enjoys a day out in NYC on March 30, 2024.

August 2024: Divorce
J.Lo filed for divorce Aug. 20, listing the date of separation as Apil 26, according to the filing obtained by TMZ.